musings standing in a bus

matagal-tagal na akong hindi sumasakay ng bus pa-probinsya. simula nung nagkaroon kami ng sasakyan, iyon at iyon ang dala namin tuwing lumuluwas pa-Pampanga. it was probably last year that i did the same. pero weird na di ko maalala.

anyway, dahil (normal na) mahirap sumakay paluwas ng maynila tuwing linggo, pinagkasya ko na ang aking [malaking] katawan sa tayuang bus pa-Pasay. ginagawa ko na yon noong college… (which was over 10 years ago, imagine that! wow!) dahil no-choice at gusto mo na din makapag-settle down sa dorm for school the next day.

na-isip ko, having a good view of most of the seated passengers dahil nga nakatayo ako, may kanya-kanyang mundo talaga sa commute dahil sa cellphone. i didn’t get that impression in the morning trip going to Pampanga because i was comfortably seated beside a window. at that time, mas iniisip ko na na-a-appreciate ko yung view paluwas ng Pampanga because i wasn’t busy minding the road and the other cars. laid-back, chill lang… even if i was running a bit late. heheh…

in that evening trip nga, i saw how much of everything revolved around devices. the girl seated in front of me had a bunch of selfies in her Gallery app. another one was texting her boyfriend she was already on her way. (i wasn’t snooping around. you can’t help but be distracted by bright screens in a dimly-lit bus, OK? #defensivemuch) another girl standing along the isle with me had her Friends episode playing on her phone, while another movie (Nine Lives?) was in the bus’ entertainment system. (well, thank goodness it wasn’t karaoke!)

andami pang may kanya-kanyang bubble sa loob ng bus. most of the young people were the ones who held on to their devices while those who kept them in their pockets, save the occasional loud conversations on a Cherry Mobile feature phone. sabagay, ano ba naman makikita mo sa labas ng bintana kung gabi naman diba?

but then, how about interactions with other people? minsan nawawala pagka-sensitive naten sa mga tao dahil wala na tayong meaningful conversations because we have FB messenger as an excuse…

“nagcha-chat naman kami eh!”

pero i don’t think nothing will replace actual physical interaction. kahit gaano pa kagaling na VR yan o hologram. we’re in a tangible world for a reason. hindi sa The Matrix.

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  1. Ser, TUMPAK. Everyday commute ko sa UV Express, mula sa village namin papuntang Makati, mga fellow commuters ko nakatutok sa cellphone nila. Di ko gawain yun kasi wala akong mobile data at madali akong mahilo pag nagte-text inside a moving vehicle. A few years back hindi naman ganito ang society natin (and worldwide in general). Ang badtrip minsan – I mean PALAGI, pag catch up session with friends – picturan ng food sabay upload nila agad sa Instagram tapos antagaaaaaaaaaaaaaal mag edit ng sangkatutak na photo filters or panay ang WhatsApp/FB chat/etc etc sa cellphone. Not proud to admit it pero I’ve dropped several friends who are guilty of doing this. I have no time for people who are wasting my time. Minsan I would try to reach out to friends via text, walang reply, pero minu-minuto ang mga leche (excuse my language) sa kaka-post ng updates sa FB, Instagram/(insert social media). Tapos sasabihin ang hirap daw mag-reach out sa akin kesyo wala akong social media. I prefer face to face interaction, not virtual “likes”. KAINIS. End of rant.

    PS: Discovered your blog nung Ginoogle ko “Philippine Watch Club” at napadpad ako dun sa G-shock blog entry. Yun lang ser. Pasensya na sa istorbo. Kelangan ko lang mag comment at mag share ng saloobin.

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